Guestpost: Just Take A Bow

Wednesday, August 31, 2011



thrifted lace top, black pleated skirt

Hello readers of The Ginger Diaries! My name is Sarah and I'll be taking care of you today--right, we aren't at a restaurant. But, seriously, Nikki asked me to whip up a guest post for your entertainment while she is gallivanting around on holiday. And the topic we landed on? Thrifting.

If you read my blog then you already know that, at last count, my closet is about 70% thrifted. If you don't read my blog, now you know, too. It has gotten to the point that I turn down thrift store items for being too expensive. I know. I'm ridiculous. I fell into the activity by accident (I can't even remember how) and I can't imagine my wardrobe without it, now.

If you aspire to be a cheap frugal as I am, then here are a few tips for how I tackle the activity of thrifting!



vintage red JC Penny cardigan

Picking Where to Go

No matter where you go to thrift, keep in mind that thrift stores run almost exclusively on donations and those donations tend to be from locals. So the Goodwill that is in the suburb of the ritzy town is going to have a different host of clothes than the one at the edge of low-cost living. Thrift stores are businesses, too, and will carry merchandise their customers want.
  • Goodwill: While I have scored some interesting things at Goodwill, I can honestly say that they are generally quite overpriced. I prefer to shop at thrift stores that go to charity organizations or are smaller-scale. I do like to check out the tag color that is 50% off and it never hurts to look--sometimes I am surprised what I think is fashionable and Goodwill stockers think is fugly.
  • Outlets/Warehouses: The Goodwill Outlet, however, is kind of one of my best friends. It is basically where unsold Goodwill retail items go to die or be sold for $1.49 BY THE POUND. If you live in the US/Canada you should go check if there's one near you.
  • Charity Shops: By far my favorite places to shop, they are better priced, the staff are generally nicer, and you know the money is going somewhere deserving. Not only that, but the eclectic mixture of donated items is ALWAYS a blast to look through. Plus they tend to have killer sales!
  • Garage/Estate Sales: Some of the most unique, history-laden, awesome items I've come across have been from estate and garage sales.
  • Flea Markets, etc. I don't know what other kind of sales and markets there are out there, but explore! I have often wandered through estate sales or flea markets and only end up snagging one necklace, but the adventure is worth it, too. Be open--you never know what you'll find!


billowy top & cream vintage boots

How to Find the Treasure

For me, a perfect find is something unexpected that makes me look and feel great. Just like shopping at your favorite store, though, the hanger can be deceiving--give things a fighting chance.
  • Try Things On: I have almost put things back that I thought would be terrible on my body only to be shocked and awed by the perfection they are on my strange shape. You literally never known until you give it a chance. So dooo iiit.
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    pastel polka dot dress & perfect little black dress
  • Search Everywhere: Some people only go to one section (ex. Womens' Medium) or are drawn to one color. I literally scour as much as I have time to from childrens' to mens' and from the smallest I could possibly wear on up two sizes or more past mine. Nothing is 100% hung in order and you are thrifting so sizes are not like at the department store. You never know what will fit!
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    mens' plaid shirt & plus-size sweater
  • Too Big Isn't Always Bad: Ask Lea, I generally will ponder things are are obviously not my size because there is absolutely a kind of too big that is the "right kind" of too big. Some of 'em have shown up on my blog.
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    navy and white striped sweater & gorgeous coral shirt
  • Once Isn't Enough: Your first trip is not guaranteed to be a winner, so don't give up after the first time. Give yourself at least three trips and not all to the same place. I swear there is a way to be successful, and it is called luck.

Deciding What Comes Home

  • Does Your Closet Need It? I don't care how awesome those $1 pants are--if they are almost the same as three pair you already own, you either have to get rid of the ones you have or let the others go. Cluttering your closet isn't the goal! But if the item is unique or significantly different, I say go for it!
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    Leopard midi & green embellished waist midi
  • Cheap Doesn't Mean Buy: Yes, you can probably get eleven items for the price of one jacket at the regular store, but do you NEED those eleven items? Most likely the answer is no. I am incredibly picky when I buy clothes and at this point I only buy things I know will be loved. I occasionally make a mistake and am lured in by something I like at the store and hate at home, but that's much easier to stomach at $2 a mistake.

    Cheap IS, however, a good excuse to grab that pink JCrew tee you aren't sure if you'll wear because it is literally going to cost you a quarter. The photos below this tip are all items I wasn't sure about and now can't live without.
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    silk shirt/cardigan & JCrew tee/Gap cardigan
  • Will You REALLY Alter It? I sometimes buy things that need a little love, but I will have NO MORE THAN five small project items at a time. Until I actually do the work on the previous ones, I do not allow myself to buy more. If I don't get to the project, the item is useless and I threw that money away. Be realistic with yourself.
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    Safety-pin embellished blazer & yellow stripe grandma pants
  • Creativity > Trendiness: The thing about most thrift stores (minus Goodwill) is that the majority of the clothes you are about to encounter are not the clothes that are going to grace the pages of your favorite magazine. I love this because it forces you to be the master of your style and create it by finding what feel like one-of-a-kind pieces that capture the look you want.

    So who cares if that jacket you just found is WAY too biker chic and you're way more into the girly, 70s flower child look? If you love the piece there's a way to make it work and it belongs in your wardrobe, ya dig?

Beyond the Thrift Shops

Now you're really thrifty and those skills for singling out a bargain can serve you well ANYWHERE. Because you have an eye for textures, colors, and patterns that catch your attention and you are no longer willing to pay ridiculous prices for things you can get cheaper (and better) elsewhere! I have recently scored some killer deals on jewelry at Claire's--below is a necklace I got for $3.



Psst--this dress was also thrifted.


The most important thing, really, is that you believe your money is being used to get things of value. I am constantly amazed that I can snag genuine silk or hearty cotton vintage clothes for a fraction of the cost that a thin, synthetic fiber would be at Forever 21 or H&M. Am I saying don't shop there? Heavens, no. But do realize that it is true: things used to be made to last.

Sometimes that Target dress feels like the right price at $24.99 but more and more I have found myself imagining the 10+ things I could be getting instead and it requires that I freaking love the dress before I drop twenty-five big ones on it. Maybe you'll come to see what I mean. Whether you do or not, though, everyone's wardrobe can use that one little thrifted treasure.

Thanks for reading, guys!


Guestpost: Madeline Quaint

Monday, August 29, 2011

Hello Dear Readers of The Ginger Diaries! I’m Madeline blogging over at Madeline Quaint, and I couldn’t have been happier when Nikki asked me to fill in for her while she’s visiting The Big Apple! For one thing, she’s such a lovely, kind, welcoming blogger with great sense of humour and of course, style, she’s also a fellow redhead! Redhead bloggers unite! :)

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So you already know my name, but what is my style like? Well, the most important thing is that dressing up is a constant source of inspiration for me. I don’t know about you, but my mood is always influenced by what I wear, so I always try to dress in a way that would make me feel good – happy, romantic, nostalgic, adventurous, creative...

Therefore I’m always on the lookout for strange and original pieces of clothing as well as simple but well cut basics, that can be combined in a comfortable and generally cheerful way. I’m a huge advocate of handmade, locally bought clothes and accessories, as well as second hand shopping, the best places to find treasures for your wardrobe!

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This interesting jacket-like garment came with a handmade dress I bought at a market more than 10 years ago. I hardly ever wear it, still I can’t seem to part with it. It has the air of long gone days, and it reminds me of Venice, of light reflected in the canals and echoing cobblestoned streets… I got the simple black dress from H&M, and it’s the perfect blank canvas for making such a quirky piece wearable in the asphalt jungle of a 21st century metropolis. (If you can call Budapest a metropolis!)

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Sleeves rolled up and collar tucked in, I felt like a Venetian lady transported in time, and that's a feeling I really like, and not treated to very often. Mission accomplished! I’m definitely not getting rid of this jacket anytime soon!

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Thank you for reading my guestpost! Curtsey! :) 

Wearing: 
Overdress: handmade, bought at a market, Dress: H&M, Sandals: Bata, Bag: second hand, 
Necklace: Promod, Leather cuff: handmade from Jojó Art Shop, 
Rings: Promod and a handmade one from Jojó Art Shop.

Style Me Pretty #4: Citytripping

Friday, August 26, 2011


This kind of is what I'll be wearing when I stroll through the cities of New York and DC. I like to wear simple outfits when I travel. A basic dress, a cardy or shirt to keep me from getting cold, comfy flat shoes and a large tote. I always carry around big boys to keep a map, drinks, a snack, my camera etc safe and by hand. The shoulderstrap makes sure I have my hands free. Just perfect. 

My plane isn't leaving until sundaymorning (my time) but since it's going to be busy the next few days I thought I'd quickly come in to say goodbye. I have asked some of my blogging friends to take over the wheel while I'm a way and I have no doubt you'll love the guestposts they wrote! Thank you guys for filling in for me!



Loves,
Nikki



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*Update*
Before I go I still need to thank some people!

I, along with some of my favorite other bloggers, recieved an award from Kyla.
She's so sweet, go check out her fancy inspiration blog^^



A huge thank you to Katie from Hazel & Mare for saving my inner shopaholic!
Pentagon mall here I come!

And a bigbigbig hug for Kirsten from Summer Sets In for beeing such a sweetheart.

Okay. I'm ready to go now.
I'll be back around September 8th :)
See you later peeps!

Mustard

Wednesday, August 24, 2011




Hilfiger jeans | Vero Moda denim shirt | H&M knitted top & shoes | Pull & Bear ring

Having a feeling of déjà-vu here? That's perfectly possible! I'm pretty much wearing exactly the same in this outfitpost. I guess I wasn't really paying attention when I got dressed, oops.
Today is my lazy day. I'm going to clean my iTunes library, check if everything is ready for sunday, read some magazines and think about a concept for my blog. It's a big mess here isn't it? I'd like your opinions too! What do you guys want to see and read more often? What are you interested in?

Loves,
Nikki

The Floral Noob

Monday, August 22, 2011


Can you believe it took me this long to jump on the floral trend? While I was shopping in Barcelona I found this long sleeved top on the sales rack at Stradivarius and I was SOLD.



Levis jeans | Vero Moda cardigan | Stradivarius top and belt | Teva sandals | Sfera ring | 

How was everyones weekend? Mine was pretty packed. On Friday night we headed to Antwerp and stayed the night at my boyfriends room. We spend our evening eating chips and watching 'The Shawshank Redemption'. On Saturday morning we walked our way up to Canal for a luxury breakfast (My parents gave us a giftcard last Christmas and we had almost forgotten about it!). It was sunny and warm outside so we ate on the terrace. My camera has broken down so I can't share pictures of the beautiful view we had from there. In the afternoon some friends arrived and we enjoyed dinner and went to an Irish pub (I think I might have found a beer that I actually like). Spent sunday hanging at a friends house and went to Antwerp again today to help my friend Susan pick new shoes. 

Hope everyone is having a great monday!
x Nikki

Barcelona Part 2

Sunday, August 21, 2011








1. We just landed!
2. From Gaudis hand
3. Checking our positions on the map
4. A balcony, like there are millions in the city
5. Entrance of a building
6. House in 'our' hood
7. Resting and watching the wild parrots

I'm such a bad blogger at times. I totally forgot to share this post with you! It's been in my concepts for quite a while and I never got around posting it. It's been 1 and a half month since I went to Barcelona. I can't wrap my head around how fast the past two months went. Next sunday, around this time, I'll be wandering around Charles De Gaulle airport waiting for my plane to NYC. Can anyone pinch me? I can still barely believe I'm going for reals. 

Loves,
Nikki


I forgot where I put my contacts...

Friday, August 19, 2011


...So I have to wear my glasses!





You see that bike rider at the end of the street in the first photo? That's my dad! Haha! Today marks the day my parents found out that I blog. My mom now finally understands why there are a kazillion photos of me on her SD-card. My dad thinks it's stupid and my littlest sister voluteerd as photographer.  

As for the outfit I'm almost emberassed to say that everything is from H&M, except for the cameo necklace. My friends gave it to me for my 18th birthday. They bought it for me in Venice, the last stop of our Italian tour. In Belgium, a lot of schools give students a chance to visit Italy, mostely by bus. It was so much fun to take on this 10-day trip with my classmates! I'll never forget the horrible 22 hour busdrive to Pisa though!

Remember this post? I was talking about how madly I wanted to go the the Pukkelpop festival. When I saw the news last night, I couldn't have been more relieved NOT to have a ticket.
A sudden, but really intens storm turned the grounds into hell. A monsoon set everything under water, the wind destroyed the whole campsite, Trees where uprooted, two big tents, where hundreds of people had taken shelter in, have collapsed.
I wasn't there. But an awful lot of my friends were. Most of them are ok, but in shock about what happened. One girl has light injuries, but she's home. I thank God that all my friends are safe & my hart goes out to the families who lost their loves ones. 

Eve-ry-day I'm Shuf-felin'

Wednesday, August 17, 2011


iPod shuffelin' that is. I found a fun little challenge and a part of it was to put your iPod in shuffle mode and write down the first ten songs. I have a love/hate relation with the shuffle mode. I garantee you that my iPod always chooses the worst songs I have on it. iPod was good this time.



Now I'm interested.
What's the worst song you have on your iPod/MP3 ? 

Generation Clash

Monday, August 15, 2011



H&M Dress & cardigan || Zara belt || Teva sandals

I didn't really do much this weekend. I worked on saturday and earned just enough money to buy those boots from my last post! They are from Steve Madden, by the way (the Troopa boots). On sunday we went out to dinner with Kenneths family. His grandfather heard something about a machine called iPad, and he wanted to know what it was for. Than his grandmother got the iPad confused with the iPod. It was quiet hilarious as you can imagine! We decided not to tell them there also are things called iPhone, iTunes, iMac and iWhatnot. Where do we actually need all these things for? His grandparents reminded us that they came from a time where cars were rare and they still had to handwrite letters to their loved ones, where typewriters weren't collactables and where computers were still scary.
When I saw the pricetag from one of those iPads I imagined what other things I could do with that money. Buy 25 dresses, a week off to Paris or London, a year in college, ... . What would you do with €500?


Loves, 
Nikki

PS: How do you like my new header? Danielle made it for me ^^ she's so sweet!

The Autumn List

Thursday, August 11, 2011

Summer days are gone. With the weather we've been having it's kinda hard to still hope for some sunny days so I can better prepare for an early fall. This fall I'll join the plaid parade! This modcloth dress had everything I want (and don't want, namely: shippingfees). Add some colorfull tights, long cardigans and these cute steve madden boots and I am sold

 The list of things I really want need in my fall wardrobe:

1. Mustard (dress)
2. Boyfriend jeans
3. Plaid/black blazer
5. Plaid shirt
6. Light wash denim shirt
7. Striped cardigan
8. Oversized sweaters
10. colorful tights
11. A pumpkin colored scarf

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// Polyvore // Pinterest //

What's on your fall wishlist? 

Night At The Museum

Wednesday, August 10, 2011

On Saturday Kenneth and I went to the Museum Night in Antwerp. We saw The house of Rubens (yes the painter!),  The MAS, which is the newest museum in the city, just around the corner of Kenneths rented room and the Plantyn-Moretus museum, where they had books that were over 600 years old. It was the most amazing evening. And eventhough it was pouring rain we had a lot of fun frolicking around the city. I have some photos to share with you. Most were taken outside because I wasn't always sure if I was allowed to take pictures inside the museums. 



The Plantyn-Moretus was certainly the best museum we visited that night. I loved all the colourfull old books in the libraries and the little copper and metal letters they used for printing the books, in the era before typewriters and printers. When we came out of the museum it was a real monsoon outside so we ran to the nearest cafe and Kenneth bought me a cup of hot chocolate milk. What a sweetie! 



The view from the top of the MAS. All the things you've heard about the Belgian light-erosion are true. They say you could spot our little country from the universe at night, haha ^^ It had cooled down a lot outside so around 11pm we decided to go home. I can't wait to join this event again next year! 

How was your weekend? 

Loves,
Nikki

Denim & Lace

Monday, August 8, 2011



Hilfiger jeans | Zara lace top | Vero Moda denim shirt | H&M shoes 

It's been a while since I bought it, but finally here it is: my new denim shirt! It fits perfectly into my wardrobe and I can make a million diffrent combo's with this pretty little thing. And that for €7.50, Don't we all love budget shopping? Be prepared to see this baby more often!  What has everyone been up to lately? I haven't been a really good blogger the past few weeks so sorry for that! I had a little blog slump and everyday life wasn't going that good either. But I'm back now, and I have some fun posts lined up ^^ 


Loves,
Nikki